How to Talk to Your Employees About Salaries: A Manager’s Guide

Manager discussing salary expectations with an employee in a meeting room.
February 20264 min read

Why is salary negotiation important? Because it directly shapes trust, engagement and retention across the business. Salary negotiations are some of the toughest conversations managers face. They often come up in reviews, promotions or retention talks, moments when recognition matters most and the conversation carries real weight. Because these discussions can heavily shape the employee experience, they often feel complex to navigate, especially when managers are balancing expectations with business needs.  When they’re avoided, frustration builds, disengagement follows and attrition becomes a real risk.

Clarity, empathy and preparation make the difference. Before the meeting, review pay structures and market benchmarks to build credibility. During the conversation, listen actively and communicate openly to strengthen trust. Afterward, follow up quickly and reinforce recognition to keep motivation high. Michael Page gives leadership confidence with practical advice and market insights from our Salary Guides.

Across the UK, several trends are shaping how salary negotiations unfold. Here are the key takeaways for managers:

  • Salary conversations influence trust, engagement, and retention across the business.
  • Preparing with performance reviews and market benchmarks builds credibility before pay discussions.
  • Clear, transparent communication delivered with empathy strengthens employee relationships.
  • Presenting the full compensation package helps manage expectations beyond base salary.
  • Anticipating common scenarios boosts confidence in handling difficult conversations.
  • Following up with clear summaries and next steps maintains clarity and motivation.
  • Salary discussions reinforce recognition, transparency, and long-term loyalty.

How Managers and Team Leads Can Prepare for Pay Talks and Negotiate Salary

Preparation sets the foundation for a constructive and respectful conversation. Managers who come prepared demonstrate professionalism and help employees feel valued.

Practical steps to prepare:

  • Review performance: Assess achievements, contributions and areas for growth and revisit the employee’s contract and job description to ensure expectations and responsibilities are up to date.
  • Know your pay ranges: Refresh your knowledge of company guidelines and policies, and confirm any relevant budgeting, timelines or approval processes before entering the conversation.
  • Do market research: Benchmark salaries against industry standards so you can speak confidently about where the role sits in the wider market and speak to contacts and recruitment partners to gain additional market insight.
  • Anticipate questions: Consider what employees might raise, from workload and career progression to compensation history or upcoming deadlines, so you’re ready to respond with clarity.

When managers prepare well, they’re better equipped to lead the conversation with confidence and credibility.

How to Discuss Salary: Employer Tips for Negotiation

This is where communication skills matter most. Managers should balance transparency with empathy to ensure employees feel heard and respected.

Key principles to keep in mind:

  • Be clear, honest, and consistent in your communication.
  • Link pay decisions directly to performance and business objectives.
  • Discuss the total compensation package (salary, benefits, perks, flexible working).
  • Show empathy, actively listen and ask questions.

What to communicate clearly:

  • Salary ranges and how they are determined.
  • Factors influencing pay decisions (performance, market benchmarks, budgets).
  • The objective criteria used to evaluate performance and how they apply to different roles.
  • Opportunities for development beyond salary (training, career progression).

Roleplay Scenarios

  1. Employee requests a raise beyond budget
    “I appreciate you raising this and value your contributions. Our budget limits base salary increases right now. We can look at other benefits, such as flexible work or professional development.”
     
  2. Employee compares salary to market data
    “You’re right to bring this up. Our internal pay structures show the typical salary range for this role. Let’s look at how your current package fits and what steps we can take to close any gaps.”
     
  3. Employee pushes back on an offer
    “I hear your concerns. Let’s go over the full package, including benefits and career progression. We want it to meet your expectations while staying aligned with business goals.”
     

Salary Negotiation Process: Employer Follow-up Steps

The conversation doesn’t end once a decision is made. Follow-up is critical to maintaining trust and clarity.

Best practices for follow-up:

  • Provide a written summary of the agreed points.
  • Outline next steps, such as performance goals or timeframes for review.
  • Reinforce appreciation for the employee’s contributions.
  • Keep communication open for future conversations.

Following through shows employees that salary discussions are part of an ongoing, transparent dialogue rather than a one-off event.

Salary Negotiation Strategies: Tools for Managers to Succeed

At Michael Page, we equip managers with the tools they need to succeed, including speaking to consultants to understand what competitors are doing and saying. Our Salary Guides offer clear salary benchmarking, pay comparison and practical insights that help you approach pay discussions with confidence. Download the Salary Guides today and prepare for your next conversation. 

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